Today I called out my brother on making “ironic” sexist jokes. And it felt really good, because that bothers me. I think some men - when they decide they’re all aboard the equality boat - think they can laugh with us about sexism. And if you want to joke about sexists, then yeah, that’s great. But if you’re just ‘ironically’ saying “go make me a sammich, haha” I don’t give a damn about your ~feminism~ anymore. You’re still a man making a sexist joke to a woman. No, we are not on the same team anymore. You’re completely indistinguishable from a genuine misogynist right now. Stahp.